'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
1.只谈恋爱不结婚就会更快乐吗? 在最近一年里,我跟朋友们聊天时,感情问题占据了大部分时间: 为什么我们在一起各玩各的手机? 为什么对方总是说一些让我不高兴的话? 为什么热恋时精心打扮善于聊天的那个人变成了现在这个样子? 为什么我感觉被忽略了而生气,对方却觉得我无...
评分##Maria’s gift - so much clarity and transmissivity (and poetics & playfulness) ?
评分##应该是 Esther Perel 的第一本书,介绍了性对于关系的不同作用,不同的问题及对应的态度。书摘在此: https://readings.posthaven.com/mating-in-captivity-by-esther-perel
评分##对podcast和audiobook一直接受无能, 继Esther Perel的Where should we begin解锁了第一个podcast,这本同样是她读的书解锁了第一本audiobook的成就(虽然也要1.75倍速)~ 其实对Esther在NICABM中的第一印象并没有多好,但podcast里的真实session真的很厉害,跟supervisors讨论了很多次,为什么可以这么一针见血/clients为什么情感表达能力都这么高/这辈子感觉都达不到这个高度了怎么办嗷嗷嗷(够。读完书之后感觉对她session里的principles更了解了一些,但定位感觉有点小尴尬。对practitioner来说有点浅,对普通人来说session的部分可能有些无聊,也不那么“实践”向。
评分##作者不愧是最著名两性关系专家,太多精彩案例,是治疗亲密关系问题的心理医生,很好奇,如果她跟齐泽克对侃,谁能赢?这种写作有些像Oliver Sacks医生,不过,心理医生比神经医生更主观吧,没Sacks的书那么引人入胜。
评分 评分##亲密是一件愉快的事情,这是不言而喻的。亲密中有许多陷阱,也是自然而然的。翻阅《亲密陷阱》一书(上海社会科学院出版社2019年10月第1版),我脑海里所浮现的是曾经的几次闲聊。我择要地将其记下,算是此书的读后了: 一 爱就是交谈。他问我:知道是谁说的吗? 我说不知道。 ...
评分##1 上周末和发小逛街,她突然问我: 你会不会在婚姻里感到寂寞? 发小和她老公大学相恋,结婚8年,孩子6岁。身边朋友羡慕她会生活、懂教育,孩子很小就学会800个汉字、画画、小提琴,和老公也几乎从不吵架,不像自己家鸡飞狗跳,和老公争吵不断,为鸡毛蒜皮打得热火朝天。 但她...
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