具体描述
Members of the Harvard Negotiation Project--which brought you the mega-bestseller Getting to YES --show you how to handle your most difficult conversations with confidence and skill.
Whether you're dealing with an underperforming employee, disagreeing with your spouse about money or child-rearing, negotiating with a difficult client, or simply saying "no," or "I'm sorry," or "I love you," we attempt or avoid difficult conversations every day. Based on fifteen years of research at the Harvard Negotiation Project, Difficult Conversations walks you through a step-by-step proven approach to having your toughest conversations with less stress and more success. You will learn:
how to start the conversation without defensiveness
why what is not said is as important as what is
ways of keeping and regaining your balance in the face of attacks and accusations
how to decipher the underlying structure of every difficult conversation
Filled with examples from everyday life, Difficult Conversations will help you on the job, at home, or out in the world. It is a book you will turn to again and again for advice, practical skills, and reassurance.
"Does this book deliver on [its] promise of an effective way through sticky situations, whether 'with your baby sitter or your biggest client'? It does."-- The New York Times
"These talented communicators blend a daunting array of disciplines into highly readable and practical advice."-- Booklist
"Brilliant. . . . I've already re-read most of it. I'm using it. What more could a reader ask?"-- Tom Peters
"Emotional Intelligence applied to life's tough moments."-- Daniel Goleman
用户评价
##很有启发
评分##Amazing road map through difficult conversations. Insightful & Practical （以此纪念为面试而读的与面试最无关系的书）
评分##good principles, need some practices。怎样不影响关系的情况下，展开可能引向争吵的对话，实践起来不太容易吧。
评分##not bad
评分##It's actually very insightful, useful, and practical. Concise expressions. Great and easy to read.
评分##Amazing road map through difficult conversations. Insightful & Practical （以此纪念为面试而读的与面试最无关系的书）
评分##说白了这本书就是讲，当你和你觉得完全不会聊天的人聊天时，你该怎么办
评分##2009 对自己来说，还是不错的一本书。运用对话的三个层次，的确能让我更理智。 2018年的我，已经不记得自己度过这本书。“重新”再看，没有任何看过的印象，可见当时完全没有吸收！经历了时间，读了其他基本关于empathy的书，觉得这本好容易理解，完全不同了。如果觉得读起来吃力或者感觉一知半解，建议先看一看和 Empathy的书。
评分##应该列为成年人必修书目；结婚必修书目。说起来~在说话这件事上，我爸我妈可以得负分。以及，我妈认为我爸-100分，按这本书的思路，我妈大概可以得-1000分吧~舍友可能可以给60分。小宝，genius，天生的90分~多年前已经不嫉妒小宝收入是我的三倍——理智上。感情上，怎么可能不嫉妒呢，NND，老子嫉妒死了！
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