Nationally recognized communication expert Debra Fine reveals the techniques and strategies anyone can use to make small talk-in any situationDo you spend an abnormal amount of time hiding out in the bathroom or hanging out at the buffet table at social gatherings? Does the thought of striking up a conversation with a stranger make your stomach do flip-flops? Do you sit nervously through job interviews waiting for the other person to speak? Are you a -Nervous Ned or Nellie+ when it comes to networking? Then it+s time you mastered The Fine Art of Small Talk.With practical advice and conversation -cheat sheets,+ The Fine Art of Small Talk will help you learn to feel more comfortable in any type of social situation, from lunch with the boss to an association event to a cocktail party where you don+t know a soul.
##我最近意識到瞭我社恐的原因,一是把國人對英語的那種高期待(或者是我想象中的國人)帶入到瞭老外身上,但其實他們並不judge我,隻是聽我說的意思;二是其實社交也需要練習,不知從啥時候開始我居然有瞭一件事我上來就應該會這種有毒的想法,如果不會就反復打擊自己,而不是去練習。作者的一些ice break cheatsheet有些尷尬,但是後半部分的一些例句有的還是挺有用的,會找時間記下來。
評分前nerd現身說法——我是怎樣變成擅長small talk的。但仔細讀其實會發現直到現在,作者的言語中還是有種微妙的生硬,但是Fake it for a while till it becomes second nature嘛,這話說的還是不錯的。
評分##這本書和蔡康永的說話之道一樣,內容算是稀薄,但如果能真的embrace其中理念、轉變聊天的思路,那這些文字也算是功德無量。
評分##It is kind of boring and a little bit cliche, but still good for those who didn't get the skill of small talk.
評分##It is kind of boring and a little bit cliche, but still good for those who didn't get the skill of small talk.
評分##Tips 都挺尷尬的,問題其實在於對大多數人並沒有 genuine interest。所以得先 fake 一下,以 small talk 作為過渡,說不定就能發現真正的 genuine interest,順利進入 real conversation。
評分前nerd現身說法——我是怎樣變成擅長small talk的。但仔細讀其實會發現直到現在,作者的言語中還是有種微妙的生硬,但是Fake it for a while till it becomes second nature嘛,這話說的還是不錯的。
評分##be the first to say hello...
評分##走馬觀花看完。感覺太偏理論,這種交談技巧還是要自己多實踐多摸索
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