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Philippa Perry

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'Hugely warm, wise, hopeful and encouraging' Alain de Botton

Every parent wants their child to be happy and every parent wants to avoid screwing them up. But how do you achieve that?

In this absorbing, clever and funny book, renowned psychotherapist Philippa Perry tells us what really matters and what behaviour it is important to avoid - the vital dos and don'ts of parenting.

Instead of mapping out the 'perfect' plan, Perry offers a big-picture look at the elements that lead to good parent-child relationships. This refreshing, judgement-free book will help you to:

· Understand how your own upbringing may affect your parenting

· Accept that you will make mistakes and learn what you can do about them

· Break negative cycles and patterns

· Handle your own and your child's feelings

· Understand what different behaviours communicate

Full of sage and sane advice, this is the book that every parent will want to read and every child will wish their parents had.

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###有声书我一个不生孩子的人也不明白自己为什么选了这本书来看，或许是被名字所吸引，或许想要和父母和解。总的来说full of clinche nothing new。核心思想是，children do not do what we say; children do what we do. 唯一一点到我的是亲密关系中validate other's feeling 很重要。听完甚至觉得自己父母其实还不错，茫茫人海中普通父母的一员。全书时长8 时22 分。2021年听书时长总计103时19分

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##好书，虽然有些地方读得很怪，比如说睡眠训练的地方，但是大体上是一本好书，庆幸娃还小的时候读了，印象最深的几个地方：（1）说传统做法都是教孩子要开心，但是负面情绪不可避免，要认同孩子的负面情绪，要去帮他们表达情绪，孩子毕竟小没有相应的语言能力；（2）也要和小孩用合作的态度，有问题一起找解决方法；（3）在设定界限时用I- statement，设定界限是因为自己的感受，这一点其实和在其它读到的有点异曲同工，在和人有冲突时，要多说I feel upset when you shout at me，而非直接去judge去定义对方，you are angry, you are an idiot之类。

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##前几章仔细看了，学到很多，作者帮我name the feelings。后面太实操的跳过了，因为不准备当父母（笑）

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##大部分在炒冷饭，炒得还没有别人炒得香。少部分非冷饭（也有可能只是我没有看过而已）也有点不切实际。作者的表达让人不舒服。

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##I’m convinced, for the most part. Part three Feelings is the highlight.

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##可能在经历过咨询后，这本书里的内容才懂得更多。

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##希望这是我最后一本育儿书…太困了看得。

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##心理医生给起建议来，还真是何不食肉糜。还是你来问我来答吧。