具體描述
'Hugely warm, wise, hopeful and encouraging' Alain de Botton
Every parent wants their child to be happy and every parent wants to avoid screwing them up. But how do you achieve that?
In this absorbing, clever and funny book, renowned psychotherapist Philippa Perry tells us what really matters and what behaviour it is important to avoid - the vital dos and don'ts of parenting.
Instead of mapping out the 'perfect' plan, Perry offers a big-picture look at the elements that lead to good parent-child relationships. This refreshing, judgement-free book will help you to:
· Understand how your own upbringing may affect your parenting
· Accept that you will make mistakes and learn what you can do about them
· Break negative cycles and patterns
· Handle your own and your child's feelings
· Understand what different behaviours communicate
Full of sage and sane advice, this is the book that every parent will want to read and every child will wish their parents had.
用戶評價
##大部分在炒冷飯，炒得還沒有彆人炒得香。少部分非冷飯（也有可能隻是我沒有看過而已）也有點不切實際。作者的錶達讓人不舒服。
評分##前幾章仔細看瞭，學到很多，作者幫我name the feelings。後麵太實操的跳過瞭，因為不準備當父母（笑）
評分為什麼我纔讀到這本書，這是我四年多傢長生涯讀到最好的一本育兒書。以後我會推薦給每個準備要小孩的人讀。這本書值得我寫一篇很長的體會和筆記，背下來自用。另外我發現自己現在對實用類書籍的興趣超過瞭小說文藝類，自己太無知瞭，現在需要提高的兩個領域是育兒和領導力。
評分##學習如何與傢人交流
評分##心情好的時候讀如若春風蜜糖，閤捲後能加倍的對孩子好，控製自己。被惹煩的時候讀簡直覺得全篇都是bullshit和憑什麼，憑什麼娃的負能量要安放在我的情緒容器裏，我自己也是人啊。如果說非要總結幾點：1.孩子在你眼中看到他自己。2. 先共情，再講道理。順毛擼，軟著來。3. verbalise一切，因為娃太小還沒法兒全說齣來。
評分##I’m convinced, for the most part. Part three Feelings is the highlight.
評分##很好看！用詞簡單，容易讀，有很多例子和簡短的有意義的句子。很有啓發性，例如關係是一切的基礎。就是這本書怎麼這麼短呢？
評分##大部分在炒冷飯，炒得還沒有彆人炒得香。少部分非冷飯（也有可能隻是我沒有看過而已）也有點不切實際。作者的錶達讓人不舒服。
評分##真的希望我父母讀過…babies and children are people，not objects or projects,雖然所有大人都曾經是孩子，可惜很少大人會記得
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