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基本信息
书名：10-18岁青春期，男孩需要的100个引导
定价：29.80元
作者：云晓
出版社：朝华出版社
出版日期：2011-02-01
ISBN：9787505425903
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版次：1
装帧：平装
开本：12k
商品重量：0.400kg
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在青春期这个人生的十字路口，给他*需要的引导与帮助！
100个你会遇到的问题，100则实用的教子方法！
云晓编著的《10-18岁青春期男孩*需要的100个引导》全面揭示青春期男孩内心的那些秘密！深入阐述做青春期男孩父母的5大技巧——不较劲；引导他爱上学习，提升成绩；朋友式的沟通*有效；给予男孩*需要的7大引导；防范孩子成长之路上的那些危险。
内容提要
《10-18岁青春期男孩需要的100个引导》由青少年教育专家云晓编著。
在《10-18岁青春期男孩需要的100个引导》中，我们将向您——
全面揭示青春期孩子内心的那些秘密——他们那些为迫切的心理需要，以及无数的青春期困惑与烦恼。
深入阐述做青春期孩子父母的大学问——如何不与青春期的孩子较劲，如何引导孩子爱上学习、提升成绩，如何与孩子更好地沟通，如何引导孩子健康成长，如何防范孩子成长之路上的那些危险……
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作者介绍
云晓，从事教育工作多年，长期专注于家庭成功教育和青少年心理健康的研究，其作品发表于各类教育刊物，现任云晓家庭教育咨询工作室总负责人、韩国蓝天双语幼儿园客座专家等职。
云晓老师的作品自出版以来，长期位居各大书城、网络书城排行榜首位，在教育界产生了巨大的轰动！其已出版的畅销作品有：《13岁前，妈妈改变孩子的一生》《培养了不起男孩的100个细节》《培养女孩的100个细节》等。
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10-18岁，成长的十字路口：一份来自父母的秘密导航 adolescence is a turbulent sea, a period of immense change, confusion, and burgeoning self-discovery. For boys navigating this critical phase, from the cusp of puberty to the threshold of adulthood, the journey can be both exhilarating and daunting. This comprehensive guide, “10-18岁青春期：男孩需要的100个引导” is not merely a book; it is a compass, a confidante, and a steadfast companion for parents seeking to understand and support their sons through these formative years. It delves deep into the multifaceted world of adolescent boys, offering practical strategies, insightful advice, and a profound understanding of the challenges and triumphs they encounter. The adolescent years are a period of profound transformation, not just physically, but also emotionally, socially, and intellectually. Boys at this age are grappling with a whirlwind of hormonal shifts, evolving identities, and increasing independence. They are learning to navigate complex social dynamics, wrestling with academic pressures, and beginning to form their own values and beliefs. This guide acknowledges the unique developmental trajectory of boys, recognizing their specific needs and challenges during this crucial stage. It aims to equip parents with the knowledge and tools to foster healthy development, build strong relationships, and guide their sons towards becoming well-adjusted, confident, and responsible young men. Understanding the Landscape of Adolescent Boyhood: At its core, this book is built upon a foundation of empathy and a deep understanding of what it means to be a boy in today's world. It moves beyond simplistic stereotypes to explore the intricate tapestry of adolescent male psychology. The Shifting Sands of Identity: The journey of self-discovery is paramount during adolescence. This guide examines how boys begin to question who they are, their place in the world, and their burgeoning sense of self. It addresses the pressures they face in forming their identity, from peer influence to societal expectations. Parents will find invaluable insights into helping their sons explore their interests, passions, and values without imposing their own aspirations. The book emphasizes the importance of encouraging individuality and celebrating unique strengths, fostering a sense of self-acceptance that is crucial for long-term well-being. The Emotional Rollercoaster: Adolescence is often characterized by intense emotions. Boys may experience mood swings, irritability, anxiety, and even sadness. This guide offers a roadmap for parents to help their sons understand and manage these emotions in a healthy way. It explores the impact of hormones, stress, and social pressures on their emotional state. Crucially, it provides strategies for open communication, encouraging boys to express their feelings without fear of judgment, and teaching them healthy coping mechanisms for dealing with stress and disappointment. It also addresses the sensitive topic of mental health, offering guidance on recognizing signs of distress and seeking appropriate support. Navigating the Social Maze: Peer relationships take on immense importance during adolescence. Boys are learning to build friendships, negotiate social hierarchies, and understand the complexities of group dynamics. This guide sheds light on the evolving nature of male friendships, the pressures of conformity, and the challenges of bullying and social exclusion. Parents will learn how to support their sons in developing healthy social skills, fostering empathy, and building resilience in the face of social challenges. It also delves into the digital world, offering advice on responsible social media use and navigating online interactions. The Academic Tightrope: The academic demands on teenagers can be significant. This guide acknowledges the pressures of schoolwork, standardized testing, and future educational aspirations. It explores how boys learn differently and offers strategies for supporting their academic success without creating undue stress. Parents will find practical tips on fostering good study habits, promoting a love of learning, and helping their sons develop critical thinking and problem-solving skills. It also addresses the importance of balancing academic pursuits with other aspects of their lives, such as extracurricular activities and personal well-being. The Dawn of Independence: As boys mature, they naturally seek greater autonomy. This guide recognizes the importance of fostering independence while maintaining healthy boundaries. It offers advice on gradually increasing responsibilities, teaching life skills, and empowering boys to make their own decisions. Parents will learn how to strike a balance between providing guidance and allowing their sons to learn from their experiences, both successes and failures. It also touches upon the crucial conversations surrounding financial literacy, decision-making, and the development of a strong sense of personal accountability. The "100 Guidance Points": A Framework for Effective Parenting: The core of this guide lies in its meticulously curated "100 Guidance Points". These are not prescriptive rules, but rather thoughtful, actionable strategies designed to empower parents and support their sons. Each point is presented with clarity, practical examples, and a rationale rooted in adolescent psychology. These guidance points cover a broad spectrum of parental engagement, touching upon: Communication: Fostering an open and honest dialogue, active listening, and creating a safe space for sharing. This includes techniques for broaching difficult subjects and responding to sensitive questions with empathy and understanding. Emotional Support: Helping boys identify, understand, and express their emotions constructively. This involves validating their feelings, teaching emotional regulation skills, and offering comfort and reassurance. Building Resilience: Equipping boys with the skills to cope with challenges, setbacks, and disappointments. This includes encouraging a growth mindset, reframing failures as learning opportunities, and fostering a sense of agency. Setting Boundaries: Establishing clear expectations and consistent consequences while fostering a sense of responsibility and respect for rules. This involves age-appropriate discipline and guiding boys towards self-control. Fostering Healthy Habits: Promoting physical and mental well-being, including balanced nutrition, regular exercise, adequate sleep, and responsible screen time management. Encouraging Interests and Passions: Supporting the exploration of hobbies, talents, and extracurricular activities that contribute to a well-rounded development. This involves nurturing curiosity and celebrating individual strengths. Navigating Relationships: Guiding boys in building healthy friendships, understanding romantic relationships, and developing empathy and respect for others. This includes discussions on consent, boundaries, and responsible digital interactions. Preparing for the Future: Discussing career aspirations, educational pathways, financial literacy, and the development of essential life skills. This involves empowering them to make informed decisions about their future. Understanding Boys' Unique Needs: Addressing specific challenges and opportunities that arise during male adolescence, such as body image concerns, peer pressure related to masculinity, and the development of a healthy sense of self. Each guidance point is thoughtfully explained, offering practical steps that parents can implement in their daily interactions. The book avoids jargon and theoretical complexities, instead opting for accessible language and relatable scenarios. It encourages parents to adapt these strategies to their individual family dynamics and their son's unique personality. A Partnership for Growth: "10-18岁青春期：男孩需要的100个引导" is not about dictating to parents, but about empowering them. It recognizes that parenting is a dynamic and evolving process, and that every child is different. The aim is to foster a collaborative approach, where parents and sons can navigate adolescence together, with mutual respect and understanding. This guide is a testament to the belief that with the right support and guidance, adolescence can be a period of immense growth, learning, and positive transformation for boys. It is an invitation for parents to embark on this journey with open hearts and minds, armed with the knowledge and confidence to help their sons flourish into the remarkable young men they are destined to become. It is a comprehensive resource for anyone who wishes to understand, connect with, and positively influence the young men in their lives during this pivotal stage of development.
